If you consider in the real sense, there are no mistakes in life at all, only lessons. It means that whenever something happens, there is a precious pearl for you to learn from. If you can learn to accept mistakes, shortcoming, and unnecessary actions as opportunities for learning and personal development, then you’ll feel less tense and terrified, you’ll be more confident and self-assured, and your life experience will be more rewarding and fun.

In case you do something erroneous, wrong or you do something that makes you feel bad, you may get angry with yourself. Most of us are in a habit of beating ourselves up mentally again and again which is not appreciable and harmful.

You must realize this fact is that when you commit a mistake, there is a lesson for you to learn. Mistakes are gifts. They offer you the chances to search an area where perhaps you are lacking, require further knowledge or training, or require reevaluating your approach. Maybe you were hurrying. Whatever the cause, if you take the time to search what happened, you can learn what you require to know to correct the situation and to put systems in place so that this same mistake will not happen again.

Some people do not realize that they have committed any mistake. Even they do not accept their responsibility but put it to someone else or the system. This is known as a victim mentality. They rationalize, deny, make excuses, justify, and blame.
Be open to making mistakes and accept them with open mind and make struggle to remove them.

Be aware of your mistakes and try to know their causes and effects and not to repeat them.

Accept full responsibility for yourself and your life as it demonstrates strength, courage, and a commitment to personal excellence.

Never tell a lie as it may save you for now, but the truth always reveals itself sooner or later, getting you into more serious trouble. Note that “white lies” are still lies and can hurt as time goes by.

Don’t cry over the mistaken things, what you should do is learn and adapt from it and start a new life the next day. Focus your attention on studies and work, thinking twice before doing anything else.

Make a list of your mistakes each week and try to change for the better.

Make a list of trusted friends who can advise you, help you study, and give you positive feedback when you require.

While you are making mistakes then don’t think that you are foolish. The way you treat with them proves you are intelligent or not. But to make mistakes is the only way to learn.

Some people never make mistakes because they do not dare to do anything different from others.

There are some ways not to remake the mistakes others have done. For example, you may ask for advice from your parents or teachers, or you can publish your plan in your blog and share your ideas with other friends. They can give you some advice.

Never repeat mistakes for any reason at any cost.

Do not stay on past mistakes, learn from them instead.

Never allow comments from others about your mistakes as they dishearten you.

Do your best but pay no heed to negative criticism.

Appreciate help from others, particularly from family members.

Accept that it happened and can’t be changed.

Know there is always something to learn from it.

Try to understand it and the factors that caused it.

How could you have recognized the mistake earlier?

How can you avoid the mistake next time?

Are there similar things that might have a related mistake to avoid?

What has changed now to ensure that mistake doesn’t reoccur?

Who else should know about this and learn from it?

Know when to admit you’re wrong. Even in the worst situations, it’s not always clear who’s to blame. But when you realize you’ve slipped up, don’t hesitate to accept responsibility for what happened.

Avoid making unnecessary excuses when explaining your mistakes to yourself or others. Sure, there were probably factors that influenced your error, but the end result’s the same, whether you blame it on something else or not.

Apologize to the person you’ve offended, but don’t go overboard with the groveling and self-deprecation. You want to make the process of acceptance one that’s positive, not one that’s filled with shame and regret.

Look at your mistake as a stepping stone to the future, not a brick wall that’s barring the way. If you can, ask yourself what could have gone better, instead of what went wrong.

Adjust your behavior to prevent the mistake from reoccurring, but don’t dwell on avoiding it. Bad habits are often hard to kick, so give yourself plenty of time to correct your faults.

You must stay focused and driven toward the future for achievement of your set goals of your life.

“to postpone an event hoping that the situation will improve. You are just stalling to buy time. Maybe I can buy some time by asking the judge for a continuance”.

 “to obtain a longer period before something happens, We were quickly running out of money but managed to buy time by getting a small loan.

He prefers to buy some more time by not deciding yet.

(a) to pay a little longer
(b) to get a better price
(c) to pay a little later
(d) to delay a little longer

He prefers to delay a little longer by not deciding yet.

Increase the time available for a specific purpose. For example, renting an apartment buys them time to look around for a new house.

This means hiring out work that you would normally do. Hire the neighbor’s kid to rake and mow your lawn. Buy pre-made meals so cut down on cooking time. Get a house-cleaning service to take care of the big cleaning. You can buy finance software or hire an accountant to streamline your books. Pay an additional $5 to have gifts pre-wrapped. Many places offer this as an online option, as well. It’s not just in-store anymore.

If we consider the areas of our life which need the most time for example, we spent most of our time during our life on driving in the home, in the yard, eating or figuring out our finances, among other things etc. Recognizing the largest time-suckers is a great way to make us less time-consuming.

Purchase yourself some time either buy learning how to cut corners, multitask or rent out some of the more tedious everyday jobs.

Point out where you can cut corners. This factually means double tasking, getting things accomplished while you might have been otherwise preoccupied, or hiring a service to take care of things you never get around to. You might listen to educational CDs in the car or get a hands-free phone or headset to turn your auto into a branch of the office. For you finances, bank online as much as you can to avoid the afternoon rush at the bank. Also shop online as much as possible. A few years ago, there was some uncertainty in this regard, but it’s increasingly reliable across all product bases.

It is quite a different creature. With time, yeah we may waste 2 hours watching TV, but guess what, we just look at the clock and go, “Wow, time is flying by.” (I really hope this is not uttered by anyone who is always complaining about not having enough time or kids, spouse or housework.)

If that’s what we chose to do during that time period that’s fine. But, here’s the thing; we will never get those two hours back. They are gone for good. The most important thing is that we must enjoy them and contribute to the overall quality of our life.
As you know, we only have one life and only so much time in which to live that one life. Why not learn all we can about living it to the fullest. Too, we have our children under our proverbial “wing” for only so long. We require having focus on making memories with those children that will be with them for the rest of their lives. Generally we should be making as much time available for those (people and things) that matter the most to us.

As the time can’t be bought and sold, traded, or hidden away and saved for later. Time is not a product or an article which can be purchased from the market by making payment. Therefore, it is impossible that the time can be bought from the bazaar. The real fact is that our life time must be managed properly and save it from wasting at any cost. Our life must be organized and systematic as the precious time which has been passed cannot be brought back. We must be scheduled our daily life and every task must be completed in time according to it.

An effective skill in communication is unavoidable for maintaining and increase the quality of our lives. In case we can’t communicate effectively, we will be led in a way we don’t desire to go. As we all have misunderstandings within our relationships. Therefore, there are more chances of becoming puzzled, frustrated and dissatisfied merely for the reason that we are incapable of communicating properly. There are some tips which may be helpful to improve your skill of an effective communication  given here-under:

Broken and complex relations can be avoided by understanding the principles of communication, and the pitfalls we encounter.

It will be better when we know and understand the process of communication properly; we can dynamically execute the principles, perfect our skills, evade the problems and become the impressive communicators that we all wish to be.

Ask questions, in this way, you can avoid confusion and gain clarity in mind and the better understanding.

To become a better communicator, it is essential that you must to listen very carefully to understand the other person’s viewpoint.

Always observe keenly and verify the authenticity of the information you receive.

Disclose your identity and the purpose which you want to share with the people, in this way they will be able to understand who are you and how are you understanding them as well.

Always call the person by name as this is not only the courteous way but also it will cause to divert his attention.

Try to use short, simple words and sentences.

Avoid of the lengthy requests.

Always speak or write brief and to the point. However, sometimes slang word can be used.

Talk slowly and clearly.

Try to divide the tasks and instructions into clear, short and simple steps.

Your request must be contained the time and encouragement in case of requirement of respond.

Confusing expressions must be avoided.

Avoid vague words and describe the action directly to save from confusion.

Give simple explanations.

Treat the person with dignity, honor and respect.

Improve your verbal communication skills.

Improve your skill of hearing, interpreting, evaluating and responding to the messages etc.

Always use appropriate body language.

Avoid the facial expression during the conversation with anybody.

Acknowledge your audience.

Try to make eye contact with the speaker throughout the conversation.

You must keep the message focused.

Make effort to respond promptly.

Always show respect and restraint.

Scan and segregate your emails.

Keep your message readable.

Always try to use standard capitalization and spelling, particularly when your message asks your recipient to do work for you.

Try to be kind and don’t flame.

Differentiate between formal and informal situations.

Be open-minded of other people’s etiquette blunders.

Be sincere and say the things only those are really important.

Be positive.

Try to start with a solid foundation.

Make effort to do more listening than talking.

Try to be patient with your explanations.

Make effort to explain your reasons and thought processes.

Advise when required.

Don’t use jargon.

Avoid assumptions.

You can use examples if possible.

Try to put it in writing as it is better than verbal for record keeping.

Try to be professional.

The international system is the same as our own neighborhood, except that predators from a foreign country are far more hazardous than ordinary robbers, rapists and murderers for in such a situation the world community requires an effective police force to meet it.
The United Nations Organization was founded after the World War II, to keep peace, stability, cooperation and development in the world which has been adversely failed to achieve its goals. It has given up its role and the U.N.O and its other members have repeatedly proved themselves unable or unwilling to fulfill the role. For example, Kashmir Issue, Israel and Palestine Issue, Bosnia and Kosovo Issue, Iraq Issue or Afghanistan Issue. UNO could not play any vital role to solve these issues. The U.N.O. should be called the D.G. – the disunited governments. Most of its members are thugs and dictators of various types. We are fortunate indeed that the U.N. has no credible military force; it would be misused.

It is right to say that the U.N.O. has lost its utility and functionality and is now remote controlled by the Super Powers in general and USA in particular.

The international society requires governance and the United States provides it. The United States provides to other countries some, although not all, of the services that governments provide within the countries that they govern.

U.S.A, with its enormous military might, is acting as a global sheriff, policing the world’s trouble spots. It is no doubt that America is the Policeman of the world today. It has a supreme place in all over the world. As the world has no government, therefore, America has got its place to fill the gap. It is a fact that there is no international organization that can exercise autonomy it seems impossible in the near future. It is also not possible that democratic countries and nations may surrender their sovereignty which is essential for the UNO to be able to impose its will on mischief makers’ countries.

At present In spite of the financial disturbance in the international finance system, public goods are part of economic sphere. They are consisting of supply of an international reserve currency and the chief support of an open trading system. There is an important role of mediator in diplomacy to solve the complicated conflicts for example of Israeli-Palestinian dispute. In this issue the role of America is as true broker. However, the most important global public good is the joint security.

As NATO came into existence in 1949, since then the America is the sponsor of the security of Western Europe. Besides it, geographically the role of America is more extensive as being responsible for providing the protection to its all allies on international level. Suppose, if the US withdraw itself and become isolated power then its close ally Japan might seek an independent nuclear deterrent against the aggressive unpredictability of North Korea.

Unfortunately after the collapse of Soviet Union in 1991, the America became the world’s only super power. At that time some people were of the opinion that this is the end of the history and democracy and peace would sweep all over the world. Because the balance of power.

There are no chances of challenging the authority of USA on all over the world in the near future, as the world has immensely benefitted from the leading role of USA. In spite of some countries have so many complaints about the misuse of the power by USA but no combined effort has been made by any important group of countries so far for challenging the dominance of USA.

Every police force is subject to criticism, legitimate criticism. But criticizing a police force is not the same thing as arguing that there should not be one.

Merriam Webster Dictionary defines injured as under:
Transitive verb
1
A: to do an injustice to: wrong
B: to harm, impair, or tarnish the standing of <injured his reputation>
C: to give pain to <injure a person’s pride>
2
A: to inflict bodily hurt on
B: to impair the soundness of <injured her health>
C: to inflict material damage or loss on

Examples of INJURE

She fell and injured herself.
She fell and slightly injured her arm.
Several people were badly injured in the accident.

Origin of INJURE

Middle English enjuren, from Anglo-French *enjurer, from Late Latin injuriare, from Latin injuria injury

First Known Use: 15th century

Definition according to Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Injury is damage to a biological organism which can be classified on various bases.

1 Classification
1.1 By cause
1.2 By location
1.3 By activity

By cause
Traumatic injury, a body wound or shock produced by sudden physical injury, as from violence or accident
Other injuries from external physical causes, such as radiation injury, burn injury or frostbite
Injury from infection
Injury from toxin or as adverse effect of a pharmaceutical drug
Metabolic injury
Complications of diabetes due to hyperglycemia
Complications of lysosomal and glycogen storage diseases
Injury due to autoimmunity
Injury due to cancer
Injury secondary to any other disease

By location
Wound, an injury in which skin is torn, cut or punctured (an open wound), or where blunt force trauma causes a contusion (a closed wound). In pathology, it specifically refers to a sharp injury which damages the dermis of the skin.
Brain injury
Spinal cord injury
Nerve injury
Soft tissue injury
Cell damage, including direct DNA damage

By activity
Sports injury
Occupational injury

The Legal Definition of an Injury
Personal injury law forms a part of the sector of the American legal system devoted to tort law, under which citizens can file lawsuits against each other for the remedying of misdeeds and the recovering of damages. This legal instrument addresses a wider category of harm than is described by the common definition of injury as physical harm, and does not require that the claimant show that he or she suffered any actual wounds.

Psychological harm is also covered under personal injury law, which is designed and implemented throughout the country to ease the financial burden of medical care and lost hours of work, as well as the general satisfaction of some kind of restitution.

For the purposes of civil injury law, the definition given of injuries is not geared toward the stringency required for criminal prosecution, under which direct culpability for an injury would have to be established to a degree sufficient for imposing jail terms and other significant infringements of liberty.

Most commonly, injuries which are tried in court through a tort involve the negligence of the defendant, who is claimed to be responsible for the specific action or the general conditions which led to the claimant being injured. The person who has suffered the injury and his or her legal representative must show that the individual or entity being sued had an obligation to provide for the safety and well-being of others which was not honored and which therefore led to the injury being addressed in the case.

Injury law may define emotional and psychological distress as a form of injury for which legal redress can be sought if, for one thing, an occurrence of physical distress was associated with the mental harm, albeit not experienced directly by the claimant. For instance, a person who closely escaped from suffering physical trauma might be able to claim that any subsequent emotional trauma stemmed from the same source and could therefore be attributed to the individual responsible for the physical danger.

Similarly, the witness of physical trauma being suffered could claim to have suffered from mental harm under personal injury law. Emotional and physical injury may also be found to be present and accordingly used as the basis for a lawsuit in the same case, if the latter can be shown to have caused the former.
In addition to including mental as well as physical suffering, the definition given by personal injury law of its area of interest also may exclude certain forms of physical injury. For instance, a relatively minor form of injury which did not impose any financial requirements on the affected individual, either in the form of missed employment or medical bills, may be excluded from the particular understanding of injury held under personal injury law.

Personal injury law may be applied to either the actual person claimed to be responsible for the injury or to the defendant’s insurance carrier, who will then be required to pay for the medical bills of the personal injury claimant.

Definition of injured according to the legal dictionary
Tort Law
A body of rights, obligations, and remedies that is applied by courts in civil proceedings to provide relief for persons who have suffered harm from the wrongful acts of others. The person who sustains injury or suffers pecuniary damage as the result of tortious conduct is known as the plaintiff, and the person who is responsible for inflicting the injury and incurs liability for the damage is known as the defendant or tortfeasor.

Three elements must be established in every tort action. First, the plaintiff must establish that the defendant was under a legal duty to act in a particular fashion. Second, the plaintiff must demonstrate that the defendant breached this duty by failing to conform to his or her behavior accordingly. Third, the plaintiff must prove that he suffered injury or loss as a direct result of the defendant’s breach.

Civil Law
In the technical sense of the term it is a delict committed in contempt, or outrage of any one, whereby his body, his dignity, or his reputation, is maliciously injured.

2. Injuries may be divided into two classes, With reference to the means used by the wrong doer, namely, by words and by acts. The first are called verbal injuries, the latter real.

3. A verbal injury, when directed against a private person, consists in the uttering contumelious words, which tend to expose his character, by making him little or ridiculous. Where the offensive words are uttered in the beat of a dispute, and spoken to the person’s face, the law does not presume any malicious intention in the utterer, whose resentment generally subsides with his passion;, and yet, even in that case, the truth of the injurious words seldom absolves entirely from punishment. Where the injurious expressions have a tendency to blacken one’s moral character, or fix some particular guilt upon him, and are deliberately repeated in different companies, or banded about in whispers to confidants, it then grows up to the crime of slander, agreeably to the distinction of the Roman law.

4. A reat injury is inflicted by any fact by which a person’s honor or dignity is affected; as striking one with a cane, or even aiming a blow without striking; spitting in one’s face; assuming a coat of arms, or any other mark of distinction proper to another, &c. The composing and publish in defamatory libels maybe reckoned of this kind.

Criminal law/Civil Law
Criminal law, the branch of law that defines crimes, treats of their nature, and provides for their punishment. A tort is a civil wrong committed against an individual; a crime, on the other hand, is regarded as an offense committed against the public, even though only one individual may have been wronged. The real distinction lies in the way a remedy for the wrong is pursued. A tort is a wrong for which the remedy is pursued by, and at the discretion of, the injured individual or his or her representative, while a crime is a wrong for which the wrongdoer is prosecuted by the state for the purpose of punishment. However, the fact that a particular act has been or may be prosecuted as a crime does not necessarily preclude an injured party from seeking recovery from the offender in a civil action.

According to Pakistan Penal Code
In the Pakistan Penal Code the word hurt is used in place of injury which have almostly the same meaning.

332 Hurt:
(1) Whoever causes pain, harm, disease, infianity or injury to any person or impairs, disables or dismembers any organ of the body or part thereof of any person without causing his death, is said to cause hurt.

(2) The following are the kinds of hurt:
(a) Itlaf-i-udw
(b) Itlaf-i-salahiyyat-i-udw
(c) shajjah
(d) jurh and
(e) All kinds of other hurts.

There are many types of injuries under the Civil Law, Law of Tort, Criminal Law and the Penal Law i.e. to do an injustice, to do wrong, to harm, to impair, to harm the reputation, to inflict bodily hurt, to impair the soundness of health, to inflict material damage or loss, to injure through radiation, burn or bite frost, infection, toxin or as adverse effect of a pharmaceutical drug, metabolic, complications of diabetes or lysosomal and glycogen storage diseases, autoimmunity, cancer, to hurt brain and spinal cord of any person. Injury may be as a result of explosion, accident and firing. Injury may be with a blunt or sharp weapons and fire arm. However, in case of injuries under the Civil Law and Law of Tort, only compensation is given while the injuries under the Criminal Law or Penal Law may be punished with prison and fine etc.